successarexia
what is successarexia? if you show two photos to an anerexic person, one with a skinny person and one with a fat person and ask them to point to one that resembles a thin person they will pick the skinny one. but ask them which they ( at 75 pounds) think they look like and they will pick the fat one. so they are not distorted in what fat and skinny are rather it is their self perception. and all the convincing and talking in the world cannot change them. so too it is with a successarexic. with all their accomplishments big and small they only see themselves as failures. every success they have, has a specific reason but they feel overall they are not successfull and everything that happens is their fault. and the universe is out to get them. and all the talk in the world will not change that! success breeds success. so the only cure is obviously to start to feel successfull. the old adage that "the rich are just like you and me" is the farthest thing from the truth. the rich and successfull are the way they are is because they feel and think like successes. so a successarexic has to change his focus and to start small and say yes i did everything on my to do list today. i was a good person, father, spouce, friend today. don't only have big succeess goals, although you must aim for the moon if you want to reach at least the sky. and step by step, success by success you will develope into a success minded person. and then you will control the universe and when things arent going your way you know its just temporary because you are successfull and oppurtunity will come from the setbacks. its all in the way you think and feel. so go on and decide " i am successfull" and go reach the moon